New Moms & Precious Sleep

 

We all know the risks of sleep deprivation, such as obesity, high blood pressure, and strokes. If you are a new parent, sleep is even more affected by taking care of a new human being, adjusting to a new routine, and getting to know your baby. You know that old saying, “sleep when the baby sleeps”? Well, sometimes that is easier said than done, especially when you have more than one child, or you just can’t stop staring at your baby during the day.

Sleep is going to be a huge part of your physical recovery from birth along with many other things, such as helping to keep postpartum depression at bay, allowing you to be sharp and focused while doing important tasks (caring for your baby, driving, working, etc), and helping to keep your metabolisim in check.

One of the many reasons that I love being a Postpartum & Infant Care Doula is that I get to help new parents receive that precious sleep they are so desperately in need of.

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When I am working an overnight shift my clients love that they know that they will be getting a very good nights rest. Whether they are formula feeding, combination feeding or exclusively breastfeeding, their quality of sleep will be at its best with my professional, experienced and nurturing support. They wake up feeling ready to take on the world!

During day shifts with my clients, they will be assured time to rest and focus on themselves and the baby instead of having to worry about whats for dinner, the laundry that needs to be done or keeping older siblings occupied. Showers, quiet time to bond with baby and NAPS will be abundant and they feel rejuvenated by the pampering that goes along with all the other benefits of having a Postpartum & Infant Care Doula.

Another perk to having a Postpartum & Infant Care Doula is that you will have complete peace of mind that while you are getting all that uninterrupted sleep, your baby will be taken care of EXACTLY they way YOU would take care of them. Non-judgemental and unbiased support is of the utmost importance for us.

For more information on hiring a Postpartum & Infant Care Doula contact us today! (330)-635-6615 | heather@floraandfinn.com | www.floraandfinn.com

 

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5 Ways To Keep Your Bump Cool This Summer

After the extremely humid day we had here yesterday and today in NE Ohio, I had to throw some ideas out there for keeping cool and surviving the summer heat. Take a look and get some ideas for keeping your cool!

1. Wear lightweight breathable fabrics

While linen has been used for centuries to keep us cool in the summer heat, cotton and chambray are great too! Cotton knits are light and breezy and chambray is a finely woven cotton which will also help you to keep your cool. Side note: It’s very important to keep using your SPF since your skin is more prone to burning while pregnant. So, SPF and covering with lightweight fabrics will be a great team for the summer.

2. Make a smoothie

Cool off with a refreshing, nutrient-rich, healthy smoothie for breakfast, or with lunch. This Ultimate Superfood Pregnancy Smoothie would be awesome paired with tuna salad on multi-grain bread, or a bed of greens. Adding some freshly grated ginger to your smoothie will help ease any morning sickness you may have.

3. Take a dip

Swimming is one of the best means of exercise* for pregnancy. Not only will it cool you off, but it will help prevent or reduce swelling by reducing the impact of gravity on the extra fluids (50% more during pregnancy) in your body. So, hang out and relax in the pool, or take an exercise class to keep active. Some swim exercise classes incorporate Pilates and yoga to help keep you stretched out. (*Make sure to check with your care provider before adding any exercise to your routine while pregnant.)

4. Take a nap

Head indoors, crank up the AC, aim a fan at your bed and indulge in a glorious nap! Now is the time to take advantage of your right to nap. As your pregnancy progresses, you will find that you lose sleep at night either from having to use the bathroom frequently or by not being able to get comfortable. So, take time for cooling off indoors by napping while you’re at it.

5. Take a luke-warm bath

End your day by chilling out in a nice, quiet bath. Luke-warm water will help cool your body down and get you ready for a nice nights sleep. Put your feet up on the edge of the tub to help with swelling from all the extra fluids in your body and water retention. Keeping your favorite body lotion in the fridge is a nice way to moisturize your skin and keep cool after your bath.

Cheers to staying cool! -Heather

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5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Hire a Postpartum Doula

Wondering if a Postpartum and Infant Care doula is right for your family? You may want to take the following into consideration while making your decision.

1. You Live in a Village. One question I get asked quite often when someone finds out I’m a Postpartum and Infant Care doula, is: “Why would I need a postpartum doula when I have my mom?”  It’s a very honest and legitimate question. Here is my answer. If you are blessed enough to have a mother (or other close relative or friend) willing to help you out after having a baby, great! That’s wonderful, and I am so happy for you. But family isn’t always close by. Families are now spread out, not only across the country, but across the world! Gone are the days of having relatives down the block, able to pitch in at a moment’s notice. We are separated by distance now. Furthermore, even if a relative could make the trip and be with you after giving birth (or if they happen to live nearby) many have responsibilities of their own to take care of. They have jobs and families of their own to get back to. They may be able to offer you a few days, maybe a week’s worth of help, but that may be it. A nice respite, sure, but hardly sustainable. A postpartum doula steps in to fill this need for as long as the family needs. 

2. You Never Need Help. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, errands, meal preparation, older child care, pet care…plus getting to know and caring for a new baby all while healing from labor and delivery? “No big deal”…said no mother ever. The fact of the matter is, we all need help sometimes. A postpartum doula is there so that you can spend more time healing and bonding with your baby and family, and less time worrying about the laundry. Each visit from a postpartum doula will be tailored to fit your family’s unique needs that day. Need someone to care for baby while you take a much-deserved shower and nap? We do that. Need someone to fold laundry, wash dishes, or meal prep while you tend to baby? We do that. Need help handling older children and a new baby? We do that. Need a non-judgmental, supportive ear and a shoulder to cry on? We do that. Our goal is to see the family experience a smooth and joyful transition during this time.

3. You Never Have Any Questions or Doubts. If you never have any questions concerning postpartum recovery, breastfeeding positions, latch, bottle-feeding, reflux, bathing, co-sleeping, or a myriad of other questions that come up during the postpartum stage, then you may not need a postpartum doula. However, if like most of us you do have questions, a Postpartum and Infant Care doula offers a wealth of information and non-judgmental support during this confusing and overwhelming time.

4. You Never Need To Sleep. Let’s face it: Most of us need adequate sleep in order to feel our best mentally and physically. Unfortunately, the time when you need rest the most-a time when your body and mind need to take time to recover-is when most families experience the least amount of sleep they’ve had in years. A postpartum doula is here to guarantee that you get the rest and sleep that you deserve and need. Whether it’s a cat-nap in the afternoon, or a few hours sleep at night (yes, postpartum doulas offer night-time care as well! Sleep well knowing your baby is being lovingly cared for.), a postpartum doula will make sure you get adequate rest.

5. You are Wonder Woman. Actually, scratch that. I’m sure even Wonder Woman could use unbiased support and a chance to ask questions and voice frustrations without fear of judgment. Everyone needs someone in their corner cheering them on.

Stacie Loughrin, Birth and Postpartum & Infant Care Doula

Today’s blog is by our own, Stacie Loughrin, Birth and Postpartum & Infant Care Doula. For more information about Stacie and our Postpartum & Infant Care Doula services, Contact Us today!

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Stop The Comparisons and Be The Best You Can Be

“Don’t judge your insides against other people’s outsides.” We all do it from time to time, subconsciously. Whether looking at other people’s seemingly blissful life, romantic adventures with their significant other, the perfect kids in the best clothes in their immaculate backyard…..the list goes on and on. Why do THEY have it so good? IT NEEDS TO STOP! Take a step back, appreciate what you have in your life, and make the most of this very moment.

Just know that the people who you sometimes compare yourself to have struggles and issues of their own in their lives that may not show up on the outside. We see this all the time on social media. Follow someone on Instagram and you are bound to see all the most wonderful, fun, awesome times in their life. Who’s going to post on Instagram about how their wife or boyfriend cheated on them or a picture of their overdrawn bank statement? No, they are going to make it seem as though everything is peach pie and ice cream.

Take a moment to look at yourself and your life. You are wonderful! You have a great sense of humor & style, you are loyal and responsible. Friends know they can count on you being a safe place to fall. Your generosity and kind spirit have made its way into your children, who are always the ones to include others in their play or befriending someone who seems lonely. Sometimes you may look at someone and how they raise their kids and pings of guilt will come to you because you don’t do things their way, or you don’t have time to be the room mom each week because of work. It’s OK! You are being the best you can be.

Maybe your husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend isn’t perfect. Who is? Maybe you argue a bit more than you would like to, maybe you feel unappreciated with all that you do around the house and with the kids. Relationships are a lot of work. It’s not always lollipops and sunbeams. Just like the couple in the picture above, looks like they are so happy and in love, right? Who knows, maybe she is planning on leaving him over the weekend, or he slept with her boss the night before, or they fight like cats and dogs every day. You just never know other people’s troubles. If your relationship is important to you and worth working on and there’s love there – f#@king fix it. Smile at them, accept them for who they are and where they are in life. Acknowledge them and their accomplishments and they will do the same for you. Build each other up! Have each other’s backs. Life is too short to stay unhappy, that’s not good for anyone involved.

Be the best YOU can be. You are awesome! This is your story that is unfolding in front of you. Enjoy it!

-Heather

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Mind Your Own Bump

It happens to all of us at some point either in our pregnancy or parenting journeys. People stick their nose in where it does not belong, tell you how to birth, how to parent, they share their horrible experiences with their own births or breastfeeding journeys. It either freaks us out, scares us, or is just plain annoying. Even though most people mean well, it still stings.

I’ll share a little tidbit of information with you. Sometimes you have to put yourself in a little bubble and let these comments, opinions, stories, and views bounce off of you. This is your journey and your story that is unfolding and you are going to experience it in your own special way. If your cousin Lisa tells you all about her absolutely horrible experience during her induction using Pitocin, listen to her – but don’t let that frighten you and form your own opinion of Pitocin based on someone else’s experience with it.

Fill your eyes and ears with positive birth stories, learn and absorb all that you can about the physiology of the birth process, comfort measures, pain relief options and situations that can arise that would require interventions.

If you reach out to your peers wanting to know their experiences or advice on a certain topic, be prepared to hear everything – good and bad. Especially when asking in a Facebook group. Then take your questions and concerns to your OB or Midwife, trust them. They absolutely have your best interests in mind. This is another great reason to have a birth & postpartum doula.

One of the many perks of hiring a doula is that she will give you a safe, nonbiased place, listening ears and a plethora of knowledge to go at any time for help finding answers to things that are worrisome to you and for reputable resources for you to learn, research and make decisions for yourself during your journey. A best friend for everything pregnancy, birth, and parenting.

Interested in learning more about how a doula can help you navigate birth, postpartum and parenting? Contact us today!

-Heather

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10 Ways to Soothe a Fussy Baby

Let’s face it – all babies have their moments of fussiness. As a doula, having worked an abundance of families and helping them get to know their babies, learning their cues and what works and what doesn’t in regards to soothing the fussiness or getting them to sleep is a big part of the first few months of parenting. Sometimes the most simple movement, step or sound is just what you need. Other times, you need to add a few more tricks to what you are doing. Sometimes babies fuss the loudest right before they fall asleep like they are fighting it. As long as you know your baby is fed and has a clean diaper, you can go to your arsenal of tricks to help soothe your baby. I have compiled a list of my favorite 10 ways to soothe a fussy baby:


1. SWADDLE: This is the very first soothing technique I go to every time. The first 3 months of life should be treated like the fourth trimester, trying to recreate the womb as Dr. Harvey Karp says. It really works for me every time. Your baby may fuss during the swaddling, or right after (it doesn’t necessarily mean that they don’t like being swaddled). Once they realize they are safe and secure just like they were in the womb, they calm down. See my favorite swaddle blanket here. Dr. Karp is known for the techniques he developed for calming infants – The 5 S’s: swaddling, side/stomach, shushing, swinging/swaying, & sucking.

 

2. YOGA BALL: Besides a big muslin swaddle blanket, this is my second go-to and must-have for pregnancy and parenting. This $10.00 ball will likely be the greatest investment during this time. Gentle bouncing on the ball while holding your baby is all you have to do. Sometimes depending on the degree of fussiness, you may have to incorporate some of the techniques listed above. If you are expecting, I recommend getting one to have in the living room while you are watching TV, it’s great to do figure 8’s on to loosen your pelvis, or gentle bouncing closer to your due date to possibly help encourage baby to engage into the pelvis. This video gives you some other ways to use your yoga ball during pregnancy and labor.

 


3. BABYWEARING: Keeping your baby close to you while you work around the house or out walking or at the store helps to keep them happy, plus there are so many benefits of babywearing. Some of the best naps for my own babies have been while being worn. There are lots of options out there in regards to what kind of carrier – check out this gorgeous Tula Ergonomic Carrier at locally owned Baby Sweet Pea’s Boutique or wrap will work for you and your needs. Luckily, we have Babywearing International of Cleveland to help us figure all this out! Monthly meetings, experienced educators helping you learn to wear safely and fit you with the carriers, lending library and more. I highly recommend attending a meeting near you if you think babywearing is for you.

 


4. GET OUTDOORS: Sometimes just getting out of the house for some fresh air and to listen to the sounds of nature for a bit are just enough to entertain baby for a bit. Whether you use a stroller (I really enjoy this one: City Select Jogger ) or baby carrier. Soak in a bit of vitamin D and go for a walk, or just sit outside for a bit.

 
5. WHITE NOISE: White noise is great, whether coming from a vacuum, water faucet, an app on your phone, or a sound machine – the Marpac Hushh is awesome since it’s portable and nice and loud. It not only drowns out other noises that could disrupt sleep, but it is soothing and relaxing to listen to.

 
6. SWING: The constant motion from a swing or Momaroo is helpful for soothing and napping (under supervision, of course). I like the Graco Duet Oasis because it can be turned and swing side to side instead of front to back and it vibrates. The Momaroo has lots of different motions, even one that mimics bouncing (remember #2) and white noise choices!

 


7. PLAYMAT: Occasionally, your baby may just want a moment to stretch out. Playmats and activity gyms are great for letting baby stretch, kick, look at toys and do a little tummy time. Eventually, baby will start to play with (bat at) the little toys that are hanging from it. How adorable is the Emily & Meritt Activity Gym?

 
8. OLDER SIBLINGS: Older children, toddlers, even fur-brothers and sisters make good distractions for baby. Babies love watching other kids – whether they are talking to them, singing, or playing with a toy in front of them. The older your baby gets, you will notice them become more and more interested in other kids.

 


9. ROCKING CHAIR: Going back to the good old-fashioned rocking chair is a soothing motion, plus baby will have the comfort of being held. Whether you have a nice wooden rocking chair like the Bakersfield Rocking Chair or a comfy glider, try it out! It’s a great place to read a book too!

 


10. SNOO: The Snoo is pretty much the Cadillac of bassinettes. Completely recreating the sounds and motions of the womb that baby loved so much. The Snoo sack has safety clips that keep baby on their back all night long. The Snoo chooses the best motions like low swaying for sleep and faster jiggling for upsets, and the best white noise like rain for sleep or womb sounds for crying.

 

For more information on how your doula can guide you and support you and your soothing techniques Contact us today!

Happy Soothing!  -Heather

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Top 5 Brunch Spots in Cleveland

On Sundays, we brunch!

Is there a better way to spend a Sunday? I don’t think so! I have compiled a list of 5 hot brunch spots here in Cleveland. Some I have been to, and some I am planning on going to very soon! Spring is here and the weather is starting to be beautiful, some of the patios are starting to open up. It’s the perfect way to spend time with your family & friends on a leisurely Sunday afternoon.

Whether you take the whole family or keep it date-like, you will be sure to find yourself relaxed & rejuvenated, with a satisfied palette! Do you have an infant or young child in tow? Bring your Postpartum Doula to help keep the experience calm & peaceful. Doula’s love brunch too! (Just saying!)

 

1. Town Hall, Ohio City

www.townhallohiocity.com


You will find yourself having trouble deciding what to order off the brunch menu when you visit! My favorites are the Spicy Curry Chicken Noodles, Sweet Potato Hotcakes & the Food Truck Tacos. They also have an awesome Grass-Fed Cheeseburger and a make-your-own Crepe Bar. Tons of choices for vegan, gluten-free & paleo diets, along with a fantastic Bean Bar, Beer list & Bloody Mary! The entire menu is free from GMO’s, something that they are very passionate about.

 

2. Alley Cat Oyster Bar, Flats East Bank Entertainment District

www.alleycatoysterbar.com

Great shot by @nikkee11

Along with offering great views of the Cuyahoga River, The Blue Bridge & boaters on their waterfront dining and patio, The Alley Cat Oyster Bar is one of my favorites! We start with the Baked Oysters, then always get the Lobster Omelet, and my favorite – the Brown Rice Bowl with kimchi, avocado, mushroom, cilantro, and topped with a fried egg. Their brunch menu is so delicious! (P.S. – They have a stellar Bloody Mary Bar!)

 

3. Trentina, University Circle

www.restauranttrentina.com

A view of the gorgeous dining room at Trentina

This very posh & eclectic gem of Cleveland offers rustic Italian cuisine. They shop local farmers and purveyors to reduce food miles and offer sustainability. There is a food lab on premise that they use to ferment sauces, cure meats, grow herbs & make cheese & yogurt. The brunch menu is unbelievable! Semolina Waffle with preserved lemon, bourbon fig ricotta, Ohio maple syrup & walnuts sounds fantastic!  I can’t wait to get up there and brunch! The very special Menu Bianco features a seasonal 12-course tasting menu and looks wonderful too!

 

4. Luxe, Gordon Square

www.luxecleveland.com

Patio at Luxe

Looking for a luxurious vibe, Mediterranean-Italian bistro, with a mission to reduce-reuse-recycle? Luxe is the perfect hip spot to go for a relaxing brunch! Their brunch menu will make your mouth water with their Short Rib Hash, omelets like the Market Chicken Sausage with crumbled goat cheese, roasted red skin potatoes & spinach. Their Luxe Burger comes with fontina, honey cured bacon & roasted onions on challah.  Handcrafted cocktails, and a great beer and wine list too!

 

5. Fat Cats, Tremont

www.coolplacestoeat.com

My daughter and I love to come to Fat Cats! The Crispy Brussel Sprouts are so delicious with the roasted Ohio apples and curry dressing. Tofu Tacos with scrambled eggs, tabbouleh quinoa, crispy olives and roasted beets are AMAZING! This cool, funky old house turned into an amazing restaurant and brunch spot will impress you and satisfy your cravings! Check out the brunch menu!

 

I hope this list gives you some ideas for quality time this weekend! To learn more about what a postpartum doula does, check out our Blog!

Brunch on,

Heather

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Pack your bags!

What do I bring to the hospital?

This is a question we hear all of the time and one that we are completely prepared to answer. Whether you are a light packer, or a slightly over packer, we have put together a  list for you!

This printable list will come in handy for packing some items ahead of time and some last-minute items as you’re headed out the door.

Happy packing!

– Heather

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Hiring A Doula; Where To Begin And My Favorite Interview Questions

 

Are you thinking of hiring a doula? Where do you start? What questions do you ask them when you meet or talk on the phone?

Googling doulas in your area is a great place to start. If you Google surrounding cities to see who’s out there, you will have a lot more to choose from and chances are very high that they support clients birthing in your area or at your hospital.

Asking your friends and family for a referral is another possible way to get some names to start looking. Keep in mind, that doulas are never responsible for birth outcomes, and each person is going to have different expectations that are individually important to them. Each person will be drawn more closely to someone who’s personality meshes with theirs. It’s important that you would feel completely and totally at ease having this person be by your side during this super-personal, intimate, and life changing event. There would be nothing worse than feeling completely awkward and uncomfortable with your doula during your birth, or during your postpartum, just by hiring the one your friend recommended, or that was the most affordable.

When you make arrangements to meet a potential doula face-to-face, have a phone consultation, or a Skype meeting, the first thing that is important to ask is what their services include. Usually, if the doula is well versed in what her services would include – they will most likely answer a bunch of questions you may have, and then you can ask other important questions that were not answered after, such as – some of my favorite interview questions:

1. Can you tell me about your training and certifications? Hiring a trained and/or certified doula may be important to you. This is not a regulated industry as of yet, so a trained doula is important. Your doula taking the extra steps of certifying (or being in the process of certifying) shows that they are serious about their career and have put in the time and effort of testing/reading/researching/writing. Once you are certified, you must submit for recertification every few years, so that keeps your doula fresh and up to date on current recommendations.

2. Do you hire a backup for each of your clients, or do you work in pairs? It’s very important for your doula to hire a backup doula that you can meet if you request. If the day of your birth comes and your doula is ill, in an emergency situation, or supporting another client, you will be assured nurturing, professional support with your backup doula. At Flora & Finn Birth Services, we take this very seriously and only hire trusted backup doulas that would take care of our clients in the exact same manner we would. We also have the option to our clients to work in pairs, that way you have two doulas assigned to you, coming to your prenatal meetings and building a professional, personal relationship with you.

3. If I change my birth preferences, will you still be there to support me? Sometimes, during the course of your pregnancy or labor, you may want to change your mind, or certain situations call for necessary interventions. You need to be 100% sure that your doula will hold no judgment or leave you hanging on your big day. Here at Flora & Finn Birth Services, we provide unbiased and non-judgemental support for ALL types of birth experiences. We believe in the birth process, but also believe that there is more than one way to birth your baby. We will be there supporting you through any challenges, concerns or course changes along the way!

Your doula will help you navigate birth and postpartum YOUR way!

Would you like to ask us some additional questions? We’d love to hear from you! Contact Us

– Heather

 

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Oh baby! Now what?

You’re a new parent!  Welcome to the club!

You’ve read every baby book, parenting blog, article, and research you could get your hands on while waiting for your baby to come.  The day has come, and she’s finally here!  Now what?!  All of the sudden every detail of information you had etched in your mind is a distant memory with the arrival of this sweet baby. How do I hold her?  How do I change her?  What if she cries?

Please know that all these questions are completely normal and millions of new parents feel the same way.  YOU ARE NOT ALONE!  As a postpartum doula and a mother of three children, I will tell you that there will times of trial and error, times of go with the flow, and sometimes things may fall into place on accident and fit perfectly for your family!

If you have a postpartum doula, they can help you to build your confidence in taking care of your newborn.  They are your personal newborn care and parenting coach, always cheering you on and they are there to confide in when parenting feels hard.  They won’t tell you how to take care of your baby, or how to parent your baby, but instead, go over your options of different ways of taking care of your baby so you can decide what works best for you and your family.

Local parenting groups are a really great place not only to make new friends that are in the same season of life that you are but to learn from them in talking about any parenting wins or any obstacles they’ve overcome.  It’s a great way to hear about different techniques, products, and resources for parents.

Let’s face it, there’s so much information out there for parents. It can get extremely overwhelming!  Go with your gut, don’t worry about what others are or aren’t doing and don’t feel afraid to reach out for help at any time!

YOU’VE GOT THIS!

I’d love to have you join our local parenting group here in the Cleveland area!  Forest City Pregnancy & Postpartum Chat

-Heather

 

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